Mentoring - The way to freedom

Over the years I have found myself often burdened with so many tasks that I couldn't do anything effectively. How did I get in this predicament? In a large part, this was due to my failure to mentor my staff.

A simple definition of mentoring is “One who guides without leading, teaches by example, and is willing to let the mentored one experience the bumps needed for learning and growth to take a place".

What qualities make up a mentor?

• The mentoring relationship is permissive not authoritarian. Mentors need to be good communicators and spend as much time listening as guiding.

• A good mentor can apply theory into practice.

• The mentor protects the mentee, and lets them fail or struggle. A world class athlete reaches there goal by overcoming failure, if we aren't allowed to struggle we don't grow.

• The mentee perceives the world in a new light. The mentor exposes the mentee to the decision process, and helps them see the bigger picture.

Benefits for Mentors

• This process keeps your thinking fresh, you are exposed to new ideas, and you have a finger on the pulse of employee perceptions.

• You develop new leaders who can work on your behalf, and carryout a shared vision.

• You hone your leadership skills, and receive personal satisfaction.

Benefits for Mentees

• Exposure to varying management styles.

• A greater understanding of the corporate vision.

• Access to good advice.

• Growth beyond your comfort zone.

Benefits for Organizations

• A unified vision throughout the management chain.

• Continuity in leadership, resources are developed within and retention is improved.

• Continuity of corporate values.

• A trusting culture is created, increasing effectiveness while motivating staff.